Ladies, ladies, ladies!!!! So you have had a bad relationship and now you're single, hell you had a bad 50 relationships and now you're single....SO WHAT???? Life goes on!!! I get on my FB and see dozens upon dozens statuses saying "I dont need a man because..." you know thats perfectly fine but saying it everyday sounds like you are either trying to convince yourself that you dont need a man or the fact is you want a man to notice that you dont want a man so then you become the challenge....way to get attention there ladies!!! Being independent means you are just doing what you need to get shit done, I dont want to hear how you are doing it because "you dont need a man" Then whats so funny, is most of the time, once you get a man....you want them to take care of you!!!! Hold the phone, back up.....
if thats the case you are NOT an independent woman, you are a woman who is trying to make someone feel bad for you cause you are doing it all by yourself. What the fuck? You can't be an independent woman and then suddenly close your purse, quit your job and sit your ass on the couch because suddenly YOU HAVE A MAN!!! Some of yall need to put neyo's "she got her own" on repeat and listen until the words sink in. Men want a woman who they can spoil IF THEY WANT TO, but also no they dont need to buy everything because she can get it if she needs to. BTW, if you have been in a ton of relationships and none of them have worked out there's only 2 options A: You keep picking dogass men or B: You are the problem!!! It's only one of those two, accept it, fix it, move on!!! If you are constantly dialing your man's number because he needs to buy your kids diapers (but its not his kid), or because you think it would be a "great early birthday gift" if he goes out and buys you them $400 shoes, but you havent taken a lick of your money and paid a bill, yet somehow this is his fault too....you ratchet, gold diggin whore....no wonder you single....get your life together!!! And then when he breaks up with you, you want to get on fb and say you didnt need him anyways blah, blah, blah.....Obviously you did, because you still dont have them $400 shoes!!! I'm sorry ladies but I cant always be on your side when you makes us look BAD!!! Be Independent, but stick to it, and stop bragging about it for attention, we got it you're single WHATEVER!! Congrats!! Figure out your flaws and the flaws you arent seeing in the men you are picking because you must be missing something if you are always dealing with "the same type of men" Step outside the box or for some of y'all outside the hood and wait for the good man to come to you...Love and hate Sweet Candy
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