I'm am not a woman about race...Black, white, brown, gray I dont give a shit!!! So why do people still feel the need to stress over color when it comes to relationships. If you have a preference, thats fine......but dont be a dumbass, ignorant fucktard and throw your opinion at someone who is comfortable and prefers to date, get married, have kids outside their race...
This is 2014, dating outside your race is about as normal as dating your own race.....What hurts the most is the judgement usually comes from within the families. Now as the woman point of view, we all hear it....."when are you goin to get a man?" "when are you going to get married?" "When are you having babies" First off, dont rush through life with the marriage and kids just because you are getting peer pressured and secondly, you get with someone who happens to be a different race and suddenly they want to disown, call you a disgrace, talk about you to other family members WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU WANT FROM US??? On both sides of the color fence, there are bad people....FUCK STATISTICS!!! Noone really knows what race is worse because statistics are of the people WHO ARE CAUGHT!!!! DUH!!! We all have done something bad, and didnt get caught!!! But back to the subject Interracial relationships should even be a blip on the radar!!! America should be happy that we have such a large group of beautiful multicultural children and hopefully some of this hate will disappear with their growth, but unfortunately there are a few who even though they have mixed children still are very racist......dont you even realize how confused you are making your children, with all that hate on part of their history?? They wont know who to love because you are putting negativity in their mind? Grow up!!! So you had a bad relationship with one or two people of the opposite race and now you want to join the kkk or the black panthers??? I guess ignorance will always be alive in some people.....but for the ones that are enjoying it, dont let people family, friends, or enemies step on your joy.....date who you want, the world needs more people like you.....
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Ladies, ladies, ladies!!!! So you have had a bad relationship and now you're single, hell you had a bad 50 relationships and now you're single....SO WHAT???? Life goes on!!! I get on my FB and see dozens upon dozens statuses saying "I dont need a man because..." you know thats perfectly fine but saying it everyday sounds like you are either trying to convince yourself that you dont need a man or the fact is you want a man to notice that you dont want a man so then you become the challenge....way to get attention there ladies!!! Being independent means you are just doing what you need to get shit done, I dont want to hear how you are doing it because "you dont need a man" Then whats so funny, is most of the time, once you get a man....you want them to take care of you!!!! Hold the phone, back up.....
if thats the case you are NOT an independent woman, you are a woman who is trying to make someone feel bad for you cause you are doing it all by yourself. What the fuck? You can't be an independent woman and then suddenly close your purse, quit your job and sit your ass on the couch because suddenly YOU HAVE A MAN!!! Some of yall need to put neyo's "she got her own" on repeat and listen until the words sink in. Men want a woman who they can spoil IF THEY WANT TO, but also no they dont need to buy everything because she can get it if she needs to. BTW, if you have been in a ton of relationships and none of them have worked out there's only 2 options A: You keep picking dogass men or B: You are the problem!!! It's only one of those two, accept it, fix it, move on!!! If you are constantly dialing your man's number because he needs to buy your kids diapers (but its not his kid), or because you think it would be a "great early birthday gift" if he goes out and buys you them $400 shoes, but you havent taken a lick of your money and paid a bill, yet somehow this is his fault too....you ratchet, gold diggin whore....no wonder you single....get your life together!!! And then when he breaks up with you, you want to get on fb and say you didnt need him anyways blah, blah, blah.....Obviously you did, because you still dont have them $400 shoes!!! I'm sorry ladies but I cant always be on your side when you makes us look BAD!!! Be Independent, but stick to it, and stop bragging about it for attention, we got it you're single WHATEVER!! Congrats!! Figure out your flaws and the flaws you arent seeing in the men you are picking because you must be missing something if you are always dealing with "the same type of men" Step outside the box or for some of y'all outside the hood and wait for the good man to come to you...Love and hate Sweet Candy Ok so I know this is a weird topic to start off with but I hear it often around me since I live a small, yet somehow crime filled town. But it seems like quite a few (mostly men) go to prison here and they always keep at least one girl around most of the time its the mother of their child or sometimes children for selfish purposes, and to keep them around the say they have found God!!! You found God in prison??? and it amazes that women believe this, ESPECIALLY if its the third or fourth time in prison..Girl get your life together and dont believe the bull, he didn't find God he found a way for you to send money on his book every month until he gets out...and if every time he goes in you believe that when he makes that call after a month (to let you cool down because he is in prison AGAIN), and he says God is giving him a sign.....I'm not a religious person by far, but God gave his ass a sign a long time ago, probably when he was committing the crime (again). Don't believe the hype, its called a prison hustle for a reason....it's the one thing that you don't believe your man, (criminal man) will lie about.....Now let me state clearly that all men are not like this buuuuttttt I have heard so many women tell the same damn story and I'm starting to wonder if there is a book in prison titled "scriptures to send to your girl to make her believe you have found God" because all the women have the same have the same scriptures!!! Come on now, if he gets out and the first thing he wants to do is kick it, he didn't find God, he found a dumbass to take care of him while he is prison so he has soap and cigarettes every month until he got out, and I don't understand why women are surprised when their man leaves them.....HELLO!!! You are just one pussy, if he has been in there building up muscle he is suddenly ready to show it off, not settle down no matter what he says!!! There are men out there we call prison professionals...they are the repeat offenders who get out long enough to dump their old girl, find a new girl, get her pregnant and go back to jail.....they never plan on having a life outside of jail because as long as they have one dumbass on the outside taking care of him what the hell does he need to work for? And did you know that if you try to get child support while "your man" is in prison you are only going to get ONE DOLLAR A MONTH!!! Hmmmmm, is he worth hanging onto?? HEEELLLLL NO!!!!! So dont fall for the God line in prison, go to church if thats your thing look for the dedicated honest men there....those are the ones you want....You are wasting your life waiting for a man that is gonna drag you down in the end, because you are going to be so dedicated to him while he is in jail and he is going to be dedicated to your money while you are in jail.......
Go out and whore it up (not really) but once a guy commits a crime he is a ward of the state and you are not his mother, let the state pay him what he deserves..... |
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